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  • LACK OF COMPASSION AND KINDNESS IS DISTURBING

    LACK OF COMPASSION AND KINDNESS IS DISTURBING

    [vc_row el_id=”editor”][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”6685″ img_size=”500×75″ alignment=”center”][vc_row_inner css=”.vc_custom_1623014498499{padding-right: 15px !important;padding-left: 15px !important;}”][vc_column_inner width=”2/3″][vc_column_text el_class=”” css_animation=”none” css=”.vc_custom_1624580887963{padding-right: 10px !important;padding-bottom: 10px !important;padding-left: 10px !important;}”]This was the closing to this week’s issue of Jockstrap Friday’s newsletter. The issue was released late for jockstrap lovers on the “PLUS” side of the UTC line. Yet, it is an important message that needs to be heard and acted upon.

    Not all of our Jockstrap Friday readers got their email on time because; I needed to take a day, probably the first day in a long time, or I was going to lose it.

    The actions by the City of Toronto and the Toronto Police Service against homeless folks, earlier this week, disgusted and infuriated me – right down to the core of my being. I was done. Spent.

    We saw images of Toronto Police officers walking shoulder to shoulder, trampling through an encampment, stomping on and destroying everything in their path.

    This is how I feel about the situation…as best as I can describe it.

    The ONUS of homelessness is upon us all. When we hear the call for de-funding of the Police, this here is what is being talking about. I will use Toronto (where I live) as an example. First and foremost the job of our Toronto Police Force is to “Serve and Protect”.

    The message, that I am receiving loud and clear from the Toronto Police Service is all that ” Serve and Protect” means, is the Toronto Police Service (and subsequently City Council) “serve their own purpose and protect their own backsides“.

    The daily budget for Toronto Policing, is reported, to be $3 100 000, per day. Just $1 000 000 of that could have been used to house (or pay the rent of) over 80+ homeless folks FOR A YEAR. Imagine the other community and social programs that would benefit from just ONE DAY.

    Walking through an encampment and destroying everything you can lay your boots on is not solving the problem, it’s moving the problem so the privileged don’t have to be bothered.

    Well it is time for us to be bothered. Check our privilege. Check our bias. FIGHT for the proper solution.

    As a community of Queer Folks, I keep hearing that silence and inaction are the same as condoning actions. There is logic in that statement. Logic that requires positive and proactive solutions to save us all from homelessness and hunger.

    Unless we actually do something, our privilege continues to come, in part, at the expense of every single person that has been displaced and is homeless; when it could be shared, and the only thing we would notice is our quality of life improving because everyone around us, in our city, from edge to edge, has a home, is safe, protected and is also flourishing.

    Yesterday was Wednesday. Over at TURNIP TEEZ I started the PINK Collection. Inspired by PINK SHIRT DAY – A day set aside where we all can come together and wear pink to show we all say no to hate, bullying and discrimination of any kind.

    The PINK Collection, at its heart, no matter what colour you wear, is there to remind you to extend kindness in everything you do. You don’t know someone’s situation, their abilities, the mechanism that is the engine of their life.

    The best bet is to always default to KINDNESS.

    Take a moment, if you have INSTAGRAM to check out the collage on my @turnipteez Insta account. Like the photos – tag friends in the last collage photo to spread the word.

    Be Kind,

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    TURNIPHED

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    CHECK YOUR BIAS

    For all of you that think “people chose homelessness” I want to remind you that I was homeless 2x, while I fully employed full time in my career & running this website and the podcast. I never chose the situation.

    #1 Since my permanent injury at my previous employer and the subsequent permanent damage to my heart, the numerous surgeries, I still have to jump through hoops to PROVE that I am disabled. It is humiliating, degrading and embarrassing. 3 times my own insurance payments have been suspended. After wiping out what savings and investments I had and my family turning their back; I was homeless.

    #2 Another on of the times, while I was waiting to hear if I was “disabled enough” so I could start receiving my benefits again, I had to leave an unhealthy living situation.

    Neither of these were my choice. Yet I am at the mercy of someone who HAS no clue who I am, what my struggles are. They get to decide, if I can still receive the disability benefits I am entitled to; which allow me to just barely live at the poverty line and maintain an appearance that belies my current dire and desperate situation.

    Please check your BIAS.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column_inner][/vc_row_inner][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”2/3″][vc_column_text]PINK: We take $5 from the sale of each PINK Collection t-shirt (this includes the PRIDE t-shirts) & mug and set it aside for 2 projects.

    #1 Liam’s Project – this is a very homegrown effort by friend of TURNIP STYLE Liam (Gingerbums) who was driven by his own compassion to help the homeless in the San Francisco area, where he lives. Putting aside his own, Parkinson’s disease, terminal cancer diagnosis and treatment, he continues to make it a priority to buy; socks, underwear, toiletries, sleeping bags, tents, meal cards, gift card, from his own pocket. He also, as a trained medical professional, offers medical assistance to those that need it and personally works to find shelter for folks.

    #2 The 519 LGBTQIA+ Community Centre in Toronto – Some of you will remember retired TURNIP STYLE co-editor UrbanGuyTO lost his husband (Paul) to suicide in 2015. The 519 Community Centre was very import to Paul. He would be there very often with one activity group or another. The 519 works hard to offer, not just a safe place of refuge during the day but also a place of actual community and learning, in efforts to enrich the lives of OUR community and avoid the social problems we are facing today; like homelessness.

    Surely, some of you able-bodied folks can spare some extra cash to buy some PINK at TURNIP TEEZ. Help out the homeless, liven up a community and keep TURNIP STYLE running (I reinvest what pennies are left over into expenses that are related to running TURNIP STYLE – since I am not allowed to make a penny while disabled or I have to pay it back).

    If you prefer to donate directly to Liam’s Project, reach out here and I will get you in touch. If you prefer to donate directly to The 519, please visit their website https://www.the519.org/, we ask that you please make your donation in honour of “Paul Kivitso”.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/3″][vc_single_image image=”6641″ img_size=”large” add_caption=”yes”][gsf_button title=”DONATE TO LIAM’S PROJECT” style=”outline” size=”sm” align=”center” button_block=”on” link=”url:http%3A%2F%2Fturnipteez.com%2Fcontact”][gsf_button title=”DONATE TO THE 519″ style=”outline” size=”sm” align=”center” button_block=”on” link=”url:https%3A%2F%2Fsecure.e2rm.com%2Fregistrant%2FDonationPage.aspx%3Feventid%3D229215%26langpref%3Den-CA%26Referrer%3Ddirect%252fnone”][gsf_button title=”BUY PINK” style=”outline” size=”sm” align=”center” button_block=”on” link=”url:https%3A%2F%2Fwww.turnipteez.com%2Fcat%2Flabel%2Fpink%2F”][vc_column_text]

    AND BE FABULOUS IN EVERYTHING YOU DO

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  • THE BULGE ENVY JOCKSTRAP – BESPOKE

    THE BULGE ENVY JOCKSTRAP – BESPOKE

    [vc_row el_id=”editor”][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”6685″ img_size=”500×75″ alignment=”center”][vc_row_inner css=”.vc_custom_1623014498499{padding-right: 15px !important;padding-left: 15px !important;}”][vc_column_inner][vc_column_text css_animation=”bottom-to-top” animation_delay=”1″ css=”.vc_custom_1663192984288{padding-right: 10px !important;padding-bottom: 10px !important;padding-left: 10px !important;}”]Often times when the “world of men’s underwear” would return to my focus, new season or what-have-you, I would find a proud announcement from, Ryan McKillop; sharing exciting news of an expansion or addition to the MCKStore (McKillop) family.

     

    Throughout each of these growth periods Ryan has built a solid foundation. He has a very clear picture of what he wants to achieve through his work and with the people he works with. One can clearly see that Ryan is building a team of empowered workers and this reflects in the success that every one reaps.

     

    Right down to you, the consumer. The person that, finally drops their balls into the pouch. The pouch that you picked from the choices on the menu.

     

    MCKStore was started because underwear did not fit right. MCKStore is successful not just because MCKStore gear fits right. It fits perfectly.[/vc_column_text][vc_separator color=”custom” align=”align_right” border_width=”2″ el_width=”20″ accent_color=”#0a9396″][/vc_column_inner][/vc_row_inner][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_fastmediagallery columns=”2″ main_color=”#fac000″ secondary_color=”#ffffff” add_element=”%5B%7B%22element_type%22%3A%22image%22%2C%22element_url_video_type%22%3A%22local%22%2C%22element_type_local_video%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_youtube_vimeo_video%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_url_audio_type%22%3A%22local%22%2C%22element_type_local_audio%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_soundcloud_audio%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_iframe%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_poster_image_type%22%3A%22default%22%2C%22element_type_image%22%3A%226522%22%2C%22element_custom_url%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_custom_url_target%22%3A%22_blank%22%2C%22element_caption_active%22%3A%22off%22%2C%22element_caption%22%3A%22%20%22%7D%2C%7B%22element_type%22%3A%22image%22%2C%22element_url_video_type%22%3A%22local%22%2C%22element_type_local_video%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_youtube_vimeo_video%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_url_audio_type%22%3A%22local%22%2C%22element_type_local_audio%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_soundcloud_audio%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_iframe%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_poster_image_type%22%3A%22default%22%2C%22element_type_image%22%3A%226523%22%2C%22element_custom_url%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_custom_url_target%22%3A%22_blank%22%2C%22element_caption_active%22%3A%22off%22%2C%22element_caption%22%3A%22%20%22%7D%2C%7B%22element_type%22%3A%22image%22%2C%22element_url_video_type%22%3A%22local%22%2C%22element_type_local_video%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_youtube_vimeo_video%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_url_audio_type%22%3A%22local%22%2C%22element_type_local_audio%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_soundcloud_audio%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_type_iframe%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_poster_image_type%22%3A%22default%22%2C%22element_type_image%22%3A%226524%22%2C%22element_custom_url%22%3A%22%20%22%2C%22element_custom_url_target%22%3A%22_blank%22%2C%22element_caption_active%22%3A%22off%22%2C%22element_caption%22%3A%22%20%22%7D%5D”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_column_text]Having a jockstrap built just for you and your anatomy is not just accessible it is also affordable.

     

    Take some time to explore the MCK Bulge Envy Jockstrap with Custom Bespoke Pouch options. 6 different pouch designs in fact. Designed to accommodate you and your anatomy for the way you are built and your needs.

     

    Modal fabric is light weight and airy while remaining strong and supportive without ever feeling restrictive. Also amazing at moisture-wicking for when you start to turn up the humidity.

     

    Definitely, a fine example of fashion and function coming together to great a remarkable garment.

     

    MCKStore offers the bespoke pouch option on numerous styles and cuts of garment. Look for (CUSTOM) in the menu.

     

    MCKStore also has many styles that include sizing up to XXL.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_column_text][adning id=”6178″][/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=”3/4″][vc_single_image image=”6319″ img_size=”full” alignment=”right” onclick=”custom_link” css_animation=”right-to-left” animation_delay=”2″ link=”https://www.mckstore.com/cat/mck/mck-all/underwear-collections/custom-bulge/bulge-envy-custom/bulge-envy-custom-jock-bj?ref=turnip”][vc_column_text]JOIN US: Each Friday when we celebrate JOCKSTRAP FRIDAY. Sign up for our special edition of SNAP THE STRAP for Jockstrap Friday. Watch your inbox for special deals, promotions and insider information. Sign up for Jockstrap Friday today.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

  • WHY I WEAR PINK

    WHY I WEAR PINK

    [vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Inspired by PINK SHIRT DAY – a gesture of kindness, students organized and all wore PINK SHIRTS to school in solidarity with one of their classmates who was bullied for wearing the colour pink.

    PINK the Collection strives to take this gesture even further,  hoping to expand the visibility of other causes that often go unseen as well as to act as a reminder to spread kindness. Kindness is one size fits all.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_single_image image=”6603″ img_size=”” alignment=”center”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_column_text el_class=””]

    WHAT IS PINK?

    It looks rather simple really. When you look at it like that, just hanging on a hangar. Yet, hopefully over time more and more will see that there is a lot of punch in this PINK.

    It all started with the colour pink. Obviously with the connection between the Queer community and the colour. Plus, I too was the kid that got beat up for wearing pink in grade school.

    Fast forward to my “adult years” when all my corporate friends are dressing for “this day” and “that day” and “jeans day for this” and “green shirt for that”, I always seemed to never have the right shirt for the specific event. I wanted to “play along” even though I was not part of the corporate world. I wanted to get in on the action of coming together with a random bunch of people that all care about making a difference.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/3″][vc_column_text][adning id=”6178″][/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=”2/3″][vc_column_text]In fact, as I think about it, I can only recall once when I had a specific shirt for an event; it was a “red shirt” for Gay Days at Disney. The shirt was titled “Red is the new BLACK“.

    Which was extremely clever, if I do say so. I mean we can’t deny that a certain little Netflix series with a similar moniker appeared a few years later. I digress.

    I had goals I wanted to achieve with this endeavour.

    1. Sustainability – we are producing 60% more textiles today than we were 15 years ago, I wanted a garment that was going to be able to a regular piece in someone’s wardrobe, not just the fundraiser t-shirt that they pull out once a year.
    2. Recognizable – I knew that the shirt either had to speak for itself or hopefully be intriguing enough that someone would ask you the story behind the shirt.
    3. Versatility – I wanted a shirt that I could be part of my every day wear but also just as good for any event that needed a ‘pink’ shirt.

    [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_column_text]Bare with me for this random part. Here is where we get my brand of “crazy” with the “design idea” part.

    Growing up, in my family meant there were obligations. Either appearances as “the family” in tow at events or we were off to volunteer somewhere; and every where we went we always had a name tag slapped on us.

    I didn’t really realize, as a kid, just how much that was like putting on your “work name badge”, but, nonetheless I know it was “show time” and we were here to represent for whatever the reason was.

    That is exactly what is going on here – PINK is here to represent.

    Represent; a determination to stand against bullying, hate and discrimination, a promise to stand for everyone that was forced to wear a PINK TRIANGLE, a promise to remember to be kind in everything we do, a solidarity with everyone affected by breast cancer and more.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_single_image image=”6641″ img_size=”large” alignment=”center”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_column_text]So there you go. That’s what’s going on here. The entire collection of PINK is here to represent.

    At the heart of it; no matter which colour you wear in the PINK collection, which cause you are standing to represent for – we all need a little kindness. PINK is that reminder.

    Learn more about how PINK changes lives through the money raised from sales here.[/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=”6319″ img_size=”full” alignment=”right” onclick=”custom_link” css_animation=”right-to-left” animation_delay=”2″ link=”#” el_id=”jump”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/2″][gsf_gallery columns=”2″ columns_gap=”col-gap-10″ images=”6636,6637,6638,6639″][/vc_column][/vc_row]